Essence of an Affair

I was reading an article the other day and was distressed by a statement that 8 out of 10 marriages are affected by infidelity. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It’s an assumption, of course, but I don’t think that…

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Essence of Readiness

Are you really ready for a relationship? So often I hear, I want a boyfriend, I’m married but I’m not happy. I just got divorced and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. When will I find someone? It occurred to me recently that in order to be in a relationship that works,…

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Essence of Bitchiness

Ever since I was a young woman, I have always said thank you when someone called me a bitch. It wasn’t an insult to me. Perhaps it was because I have always known on some level that the following definition of bitch is the truth. The True Definition of a Bitch When I stand up…

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Essence of History

How many times I have been asked how did I get into coaching and especially relationship coaching. It’s a cute story and significantly impacted my life perhaps it will yours also. I got divorced after 23 years of marriage. I left in 1989and started learning about relationships shortly after that. I took several relationship courses,…

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Essence of Cleanliness

Cleanliness is next to godliness. What a concept. Sometimes the amount of junk and recyclable stuff seems overwhelming. I am attempting to get my office moved to my garage and of course that means everything in the garage must be sorted through and disposed of in some way. It is truly amazing how much clutter…

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