A dissertation on men

My theory entirely is that men are always trying to please women and their biggest dilemma is that they don’t have a clue how to accomplish this because women think differently than men. I love men. They are these wonderfully creative, industrious, productive, sensitive, charming creatures who love to build things, solve problems, satisfy their…

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Vulnerability is a fine trait to nurture.

Relationships do not thrive without attention.  It takes two people who focus on each other’s needs. It takes two people who believe in each other and validate each other. It takes two people who want to love each other and who continually approve of each other which allow the vulnerability necessary to be honest about their…

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Feel Free to take Risks!

Remember the population of the world is more than 7 billion. The United States population as of yesterday is 321,609,407. If you want to get married, say so, even on the first date. That may scare away a few people but anyone who is interested in the same thing will stick around. You must be…

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The Secrets of C.L.A.S.S.

What does Love with C.L.A.S.S. stand for? It is a system that I developed more than 20 years ago with my very first client. Step 1: C. for Clarity One of a woman’s jobs in relationship is to get clarity about what she wants. I know that this is contrary to what most women have…

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Who Chooses?

Women do the choosing and women do the ending of relationships. Although, a woman knows more about what is happening in a relationship at any given time than a man will ever know. It is difficult for most women to accept these facts and many argue their validity. It is good to recognize the differences…

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