What is your basic relationship strategy between men and women?
Men and women are different creatures. Raised differently from birth, they have different needs and different expectations about life, love, responsibility, work and relationships. They need to appreciate each other.

Why are women so mean to men?
A Woman is mean to the man who loves her because they she no longer fears that he will leave her if he gets angry.

What happens to relationships?
Relationships deteriorate because people sell out to comfort. Always telling the truth and being vulnerable is uncomfortable. You lie rather than risk losing face or ultimately the person you love. You must learn to tell the truth about what you need and want to make each other happy.

What do you mean when you say that it is attractive to be a bitch?
There are two kinds of bitches: There is the Mean bitch, the one who is nasty, backstabbing and venomous. She is usually using her viciousness to get revenge because someone in her life has damaged her self-esteem. The second type is an attractive, powerful bitch who owns every room, knows what she wants, asks for it and expects and knows SOMEONE will get it for her. She is attractive to both men and women.

How do relationships start?
The Woman sees a man who attracts her. By the way it's not usually his looks, it's his presence or production or something he has done that has impressed her. She gives him a signal. He then responds by trying to further impress her. Providing he does not get too intolerable in his showing off, they start dating. The WOMAN IS IN CHARGE and the relationship runs on her schedule.

How do women end relationships?
Escalating the meanness is a woman’s favorite way of getting rid of a man and have him think it’s his idea.

What has happened to change the dynamics between men and women?
Women recognize that they can exist in society with the current technology without a man to hunt, conquer and overpower adversaries. They also instinctually desire to be taken care of and protected. The women’s liberation movement has added to the confusion of both men and women. This explains the ambivalence surrounding relationship.

What do women fear about sex?
Women don't want men to know that their appetite for sex equals and occasionally surpasses that of the male. They are afraid that it will intimidate men and make them look like sluts.

What do men fear about sex?
Men think sex equals erections and their fear centers around their ability to perform.

What is the biggest problem between men and women regarding sex?
The biggest problem is dishonesty. How many women have ever faked an orgasm? Truth is a powerful aphrodisiac.

How do you get what you want from your man anytime?
Find something to acknowledge him for (I'm so glad you are here). Give an instruction/order (like from a menu). Compliment him on how he carries out your instruction. Give another instruction. Acknowledge any movement in the direction you want him to go. This formula works for everything and will get you whatever you want from a man (or anyone) anytime.

What is the most difficult thing for women in relationship?
The most difficult thing for a woman is to identify and ask for what she wants. It requires a level of self-esteem that few of us possess all the time.

What is the most difficult thing for men in relationship?
The most difficult thing for a man is to guess what his woman wants in the way of responses and to admit that he ever needs her support.

How do you find the man/woman you want?
Make a list. Detailed. Put a date on it. Put it away. Forget about it. The universe will deliver.

How long do individuals work with you to get their results?
It depends on the situation and what you are looking to accomplish. Take your circumstances into consideration then plan for up to a year. (If you are really open–three months, if you think you already know everything, up to a year and if you are stubborn, hard-headed and obstinate it might take forever.)

How long do couples work with you to get their results?
Again it depends on the situation, but significant transformation can be accomplished within a three month period.

How do you work with your clients?
I work with clients primarily by phone. I can meet with them in person, but usually it is more effective to meet by phone.

Can we talk with you between appointments?
I am available for brief phone conversations and e-mail communication between appointments.