Once upon a time, there was a 55 year old woman who had been married to the same man for 30 years. He wasn’t a particularly charming man and in fact he could be rather abusive at times. The man became very ill and died. His wife, call her Rosa, had been working full time two jobs at night for many years so that she could care for him in the day time and pay all of his medical bills by working nights. A few years after his death, Rosa decided that she really didn’t like her life very much. All she did was work and she was really quite lonely. She came to me and told me that she wanted to get married again. However, this time, she wanted to marry someone who would take care of her.

Rosa wasn’t the most beautiful woman on the planet, but she was very sweet, sincere and loving. She initially fixated her attention on a man that was her own age who didn’t even know she was alive. This took a little work but she finally realized it wasn’t getting her anywhere. We spent some time buying more attractive clothes and underwear, learning how to apply a little makeup and focusing on having her work less and actually have a life.

Since Rosa was determined to do whatever it took to get what she wanted, she was willing to stretch her comfort zone and take some risks. I told her to meet 40 men and decide what it was that she liked about each of them and also what it was that she didn’t like about each of them. She had some photos taken and placed an ad in the personals and then started answering ads and taking responses.

It took about a year total, but from where she started to what happened, was amazing. As she started to meet men, her self-esteem increased and each time her self-esteem increased, the quality of the men she would meet increased. What ultimately occurred was she met a charming, wonderful gentleman who was also widowed, about her same age, with the same interests who absolutely adored her. Within a year of her meeting him, he took her to Paris for New Years and proposed at the Eiffel Tower. As it turned out she got much more than she expected. It seems that he was quite well off with investments and property, so right now, she still works but only 10 days a month because she wants to. He recently took early retirement, so the rest of the time they travel together, go to plays, art exhibits and are building two houses on the beach property he owned in Southern California. They are both quite happy.

What happened to her seemed like a miracle and can happen to you too…

The same principles and the strategy that worked for them, can work for you too. I know because they’ve worked for many, many people just like you. Your situation is not unique. More importantly - your situation is NOT hopeless, no matter how long it’s been since you have been out there in the matchmaking world. The strategy I use has been developed over 30 years of successfully working with men and women in all kinds of relationships and circumstances. It works. I have seen people in relationships that were completely on the rocks, turn around and become loving, affectionate, happy couples, who thrive on each other.

Here’s How I Can Help You Take A First Step Towards Entering A Relationship Right Now…

Enroll in my e-course called Romance Re-entry. (link) that outlines in detail the easiest, most effective way to get back into the relationship game, no matter what the current condition of your love life. It doesn’t matter how old you are, how long you have been looking, how many times you have tried in the past, or what you have learned about relationships from your parents, your past experience or just observing, this strategy can work for you.

Here Are Some Of The Ideas You’ll Discover to Help You Get What You Want From Your Relationship

I want to make it perfectly clear, I am not a therapist, a psychologist, a marriage counselor or a psychic. I have been coaching men and women in relationships for the past 13 years with remarkable results. The people who are most successful coaching with me are those who are willing to do whatever it takes to get their results. If you are someone who is looking for a magic fix, this isn’t it. If you want results different than you have been getting, you must take different actions.

For a very select few of you who meet the following criteria:

You want a relationship
You have at least 10 hours a week to spend on yourself, going out on exploratory dates, doing self analysis, personal inventory and introspection about your life.

You are willing to take whatever action is necessary to achieve your outcome and get the hell out of your own way.

You are willing to let go of and get over old stuff that doesn’t serve you any more.

You are willing to stretch and step outside of your comfort zone.

You are willing to take personal responsibility for your results.

You have done everything you know how to do and you are willing to admit that what you are presently doing is not working and you need another way.

You have the financial stability to invest in yourself to attain a more satisfying life.

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